5. We think we can change the mind.  In India I have learnt, this is not possible: The structure of the mind, is the same for each person. The fundamental experience of fear, joy, jealousy or grief is the same for all people.  As a metaphor: we all have the same laptop and we all have installed MS Word. Only the files are different: one has only business letters, another has written novels, the third has written short stories. Fear is always fear and feels the same for everybody in the world. Only the objects of fear are different: you can be afraid to get a bad mark in school or to lose your job.
The solution for the structure: Accept, that you can´t change the structure of the mind. Then you get freedom with everything you see. You do not have to change it. People who are awakened do not try to change the mind. They do not try to stop it. They sit in a aircraft in 10 km above the mind and watch it, but they dont´t take it important.  Of course that´s a blind speaking about the colour, but that´s how the seeing people describe it to me.  :-) The solution for the charge at the contents: Ask the Divine Presence to delete the charge. Because we are not able to do that on our own. When it´s done, the charged thought has become a simply memory.  back